The bottle of mineral water left is the dishToys for childrenperfect
With the appearance of personality, frank, liberal talk style, claiming to be "the lazy mother in the world", but actually Nguyen Hue spends a lot of time reading and raising children, observing the reactionMy child's to find appropriate parenting.
Nguyen Hue's mother - Ong's mother.
Like other mothers, Hue also struggled with dizziness that did not know which toy to choose in the millions of toys "to help children develop superior", "help children smarter", with ads about education.Early, about the golden development of children ... But from observing his children, Nguyen Hue realized that the toys that did not lose money to buy were something that the child played most interesting, not bored from this day to day to dayother.
The bottle of mineral water and unused plastic containers can be added to nuts, rice, gravel, bottle cap ... to create different sounds for children to explore.
"The bottles of mineral water left is the perfect toy of their children, playing since the 3 months until now I have been 9 months, almost every day playing, every time I play an hour" - Hue shared."The bottle of mineral water is a toy that helps children with touch, vision, hearing and movement, and inner bottles to help children clearly see everything inside, can be added to different materials such as toothpicks, seedsRice, beans ... to create different sounds, the bottle of mineral water is very fit and can roll back and forth, my child likes to crawl in the bottle thus developing rough movement.Smashing the house, smashing the wall, on the floor, on the chair, each sound is different ... There is a period when I love to poking the bottle when opening the lid ... ".
On rainy days when I could not let my child play outdoors, Hue picked leaves, flowers and put in bottles, I learned to open the bottle cap and find a way to get the flower from the bottle.
At home of this mother, there is a collection of water bottles of all sizes."Every time I want you to have a new toy, I only need to spend 5-10 thousand to buy a bottle of water," Hue said.Going to the restaurant "crushed" mother also pay attention to collect more bottles.When you want your child to have a new experience, Hue poured water into the bottles and bottles of less bottles for children to pick up, feel heavy, more or less, the movement of the water in the bottle.
Although the grandmother lamented "why not buy cars, toys to play music for him to play.homemade toysof mother.In addition to the mineral water bottle, there is also a small bell, colorful plastic balls, some paper boxes, some boxes made from coffee cups in the Takeeaway that mother made homemade including bells, small pipes, some materials produce sound ...
The bee's toy is stored in a simple cardboard box.
Those are some boxes of cardboard, old cake boxes, cake trays ... for children to touch different materials, beat sounds ...
The colorful balls are very suitable for this age because it will stimulate the baby to crawl, crawl in the ball.
Small bells and balls along with her mother's kitchen utensils turn into a balloon game.
The small yellow bell is the item that bee loves.The boy crawled on the floor, pushed the bell, listened to the sound that the bell created when moving, and just like that for tens of minutes.
Like other babies under 1 year old, all toys, utensils are put in the mouth, sucking, gnawing ... since childhood 3-4 months, Hue's mother has given her children freely because it is hereIt is the way you explore the world, whether many people around call "dirty" or afraid of swallowing.In fact, "If the baby is comfortable to put in the mouth of the things he wants, he will never swallow it but just see how hard it is and release" - Nguyen Hue said.
If the baby is comfortable to suck, gnawing toys, he will never swallow.
Familiar with self -discovery, playing with simple toys made by her mother, Hue realized that Baby Ong was very independent, less crying, when playing very focused and quiet, can play a oneI am in a long time: "Sometimes my baby is completely passionate about the item but forgetting her mother. Once I was sick lying on the floor, I could not do anything, no one supported, I felt so lucky whenYou can play, happy by yourself ".
Let me play your way!
This mother also said that when she played, she let her play without interfering, did not guide her how to play, did not tell her to do this and could not do that.When doing this way, "the whole family is my toy", from the door opened and closed, the pot is parallel, the chairs of the table ... I can explore and play with anything you want.
With such a mother's point of view, Bee can go around the house, open the kitchen cabinets and rummage in it:
Baby bees played with kitchen cabinets.
"When I let my child play, I feel there are many interesting things.Looking like that.Knowing what "but that is big, they are smarter than we think!", - Hue said.
Another homemade toy from the vegetable basket.
Baby Ong also made his parents and everyone in the house surprised when he could ... watch the star fruit tree for 45 minutes when he was only 3 months.Later, the baby still sometimes looks at the leaves about 10-15 minutes a day and the baby's mother realizes how many things to see on a tree in the corner of the house: rainy days, sunny days, young leaves sprouting up,The days of blooming purple heart, the days of fresh star fruit growing ... and bees really a boy who "enjoyed" from a young age, like the words of everyone in the house commented."If you let me decide what to do, how to play, without interfering, arranging, imposing, children will surprise adults - Hue shared.
The viewpoint for children to play without the intervention of adults is not popular in Vietnam but quite familiar to many parents in developed countries like the US and Australia.The famous parenting method in the world Rie (Resources for Infant Education) thinks that the child has had his own thought since he overturned to know what he likes to play and how to play.Therefore, parents should take the time to play by themselves, just step back and observe children, completely give children the right to decide to play, how long to play, how to play.At that time, children have the opportunity to promote their ability to create how to play, solve themselves difficulties to play, and train their ability to focus and patience - these are all important skills and virtues for the city.The child's work later.
Hue also let children play utensils and decorations made from natural materials.
Baby Ong also loves playing with mother's wooden necklace (with this toy that needs adult supervision to ensure safety).
Also with the desire to help children train the ability to solve the problem, sometimes Nguyen Hue creates some small challenges for the 9 -month -old son to find ways to manage: I am in the crib, I leave the toy in the crib and the crib andopposite.The boy struggled for a few days in a row to get toys."The difficulty is the wisdom, the problematic situation will stimulate the child to explore and think about it" is the viewpoint of this full -time mother.Hue said that "If he plays and he cannot do it himself, he cannot be independent of anything".
Believing that children can do themselves, so Hue often tells her for a few months as an adult: "I can do it myself", "I am very happy when I do it for myself!", "I"Doing well! "," I know you will do it! "," You're okay to get up! ".
The simple desire of this full -time mother is that her children grow up to become an independent and responsible person and be able to overcome the hindering challenges of life.